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Theodore Frelinghuysen

1860 – 1928

(1860-1928) American clubman and socialite

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Lived 1860 – 1928 (aged 67). Theodore Frelinghuysen was an American.

Theodore Frelinghuysen (April 17, 1860 – January 30, 1928) and Matilda Elizabeth Griswold (1817–1889). His siblings included: Matilda Griswold Frelinghuysen, who married Henry Winthrop Gray, a prominent merchant; Charlotte Louisa Frelinghuysen; Frederick Frelinghuysen, who married Estelle B. Kinney; George Griswold Frelinghuysen, who married Sara Linen Ballantine, granddaughter of Peter Ballantine; and Sarah Helen Frelinghuysen (1856–1939),

His paternal grandparents were Frederick Frelinghuysen and Mary (née Dumont) Frelinghuysen. His grandfather died when his father was just three years old, so his father was adopted by his uncle, Theodore Frelinghuysen. Both grandfather and adopted grandfather were sons of Frederick Frelinghuysen, the eminent lawyer who was one of the framers of the first New Jersey Constitution, a soldier in the American Revolutionary War, a member of the Continental Congress, and a member of the United States Senate.

Career Frelinghuysen was the Treasurer of the J. & P. Coats Ltd., a large British thread company that was run by his father-in-law Sir James Coats and located at 347 Broadway in New York City.

In 1906, he became a director as well as financier of the Brunswick Refrigeration Co., a consolidation of the New Brunswick Refrigeration Company and Union Refrigeration Company which had merged. The other directors included W. Campbell Clark, head of Clark Thread Company and A. M. Coats, president of the Coats Thread Company. Conveniently, 400 was the number of people that could fit into Mrs. Astor's ballroom.

Frelinghuysen was a member of the Metropolitan Club, the Knickerbocker Club, the Union Club of the City of New York, the Harvard Club of New York, the Merchants' Club, the Country Club, the Lawyers' Club and the Suburban Riding and Driving Club.

Personal life On August 25, 1885, Frelinghuysen was married to Alice Dudley Coats (1861–1889) in Newport, Rhode Island. Alice was the daughter of Sir James Coats, 1st Baronet and Lady Sarah Auchincloss, an American. They lived at 25 West 15th Street near Stuyvesant Square.

Frederick Theodore Frelinghuysen (1886–1967), who married Mai Duncan Watson (1896–1958) in 1914. After their divorce, he married Katherine (née Kendall) Fisk (1883–1962), the widow of Charles W. Fisk, in 1927. James Coats Frelinghuysen (1888–1890), who died young. the widow of Henry Le Grand Cannon, At the wedding, his ushers were R. Livingston Beeckman and William Cutting Jr. and his best-man was Elisha Dyer Jr. and another house at Tuxedo Park, New York. Previous to East 55th Street, he had been living at the Hotel Plaza in New York. and George C. Rand in 1956; and Felicia Fisk, who married Albert B. Dewey, the brother of U.S. Representative Charles S. Dewey.

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Who was Theodore Frelinghuysen?

(1860-1928) American clubman and socialite

When was Theodore Frelinghuysen born?

Theodore Frelinghuysen was born on 17 April 1860 in Newark.

When did Theodore Frelinghuysen die?

Theodore Frelinghuysen died on 30 January 1928 in New York City.

What nationality was Theodore Frelinghuysen?

Theodore Frelinghuysen was American.

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· Wikipedia: Theodore Frelinghuysen

· Wikidata: Q50366060

· DBpedia: Theodore Frelinghuysen (New York socialite)

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