Stanley Milgram
American social psychologist
About Stanley Milgram
Lived 1933 – 1984 (aged 51). Stanley Milgram was an American social psychologist, university teacher, sociologist, psychologist and ordinary professor, known for Familiar stranger, Milgram experiment and Small-world experiment.
Biography
Early life, family and education Milgram was the second of three children born to Jewish parents in the Bronx (New York City), in 1933. His parents were Adele (born Israel) and Samuel Milgram (1898–1953), who had immigrated to the United States from Romania and Hungary respectively during World War I. Milgram's immediate and extended family were both affected by the Holocaust. After the war, relatives who had survived Nazi concentration camps and bore concentration camp tattoos stayed with the Milgram family in New York for a time.
Milgram's bar mitzvah speech, when he turned 13 in 1946, focused on the plight of European Jews and the impact that the events of World War II would have on Jewish people around the world. He said, upon becoming a man under Jewish law: "As I ... find happiness in joining the ranks of Israel, the knowledge of the tragic suffering of my fellow Jews ... makes this ... an occasion to reflect upon the heritage of my people—which now becomes mine. ... I shall try to understand my people and do my best to share the responsibilities which history has placed upon all of us."
Milgram's interest in the Holocaust had its basis in what his biographer, Professor Thomas Blass, referred to as Milgram's "lifelong identification with the Jewish people". Author Kirsten Fermaglich wrote that Milgram as an adult had "a personal conflict as a Jewish man who perceived himself both as an outsider, a victim of the Nazi destruction, and as an insider, as scientist." His wife, Alexandra, later said that Milgram's Jewish identity led to his focus on the Holocaust and his obedience-to-authority research. )
By the time he was college age, Milgram's family had moved to nearby Queens. he received his PhD in social psychology in 1960. While he was completing his PhD, Milgram worked as an assistant to psychologist Solomon Asch at the Institute for Advanced Study in Princeton, New Jersey.
Academic career In the fall of 1960, Milgram became an assistant professor at Yale, where he undertook his famous obedience-to-authority experiment. He then served as an assistant professor in the Department of Social Relations at Harvard from 1963 to 1966, on a three-year contract. The contract was then extended for one additional year, but with the lower rank of a lecturer. In 1967, Milgram accepted an offer to become a tenured full professor at the City University of New York Graduate Center, where he taught until he died in 1984.
Personal life and death Milgram married his wife, Alexandra, in a ceremony at the Brotherhood Synagogue in Greenwich Village in Manhattan on December 10, 1961, and they had two children, Michele and Marc. At the time of his death, Milgram lived in New Rochelle, New York.
Obedience to authority
In 1963, Milgram submitted the results of his obedience-to-authority experiments to the Journal of Abnormal and Social Psychology, in an article titled "Behavioral Study of Obedience". Ten years later, in 1974, Milgram published his book on the subject, Obedience to Authority.
Inspired in part by the 1961 trial of Nazi Adolf Eichmann, Milgram's models were later also used to help explain the 1968 My Lai massacre, including authority training in the military, depersonalization of the enemy based on racial and cultural differences, etc. He produced a film depicting his experiments, which are considered classics of social psychology.
An article in American Psychologist sums up Milgram's obedience experiments:
According to Milgram, "the essence of obedience consists in the fact that a person comes to view himself as the instrument for carrying out another person's wishes, and he therefore no longer sees himself as responsible for his actions. Once this critical shift of viewpoint has occurred in the person, all of the essential features of obedience follow." Thus, "the major problem for the subject is to recapture control of his own regnant processes once he has committed them to the purposes of the experimenter." Besides this hypothetical agentic state, Milgram proposed the existence of other factors accounting for the subject's obedience: politeness, awkwardness of withdrawal, absorption in the technical aspects of the task, the tendency to attribute impersonal quality to forces that are essentially human, a belief that the experiment served a desirable end, the sequential nature of the action, and anxiety.
A competing explanation At the same time, these experiments have come under attack. Some critics questioned whether subjects sensed the unreality of the situation. Others questioned the relevance of the laboratory setting to the real world.
The most devastating criticisms involved the ethics of the basic experimental design. Professor Milgram, for his part, felt that such misgivings were traceable to the unsavory nature of his results: "Underlying the criticism of the experiment," Milgram wrote, "is an alternative model of human nature, one holding that when confronted with a choice between hurting others and complying with authority, normal people reject authority."
Daniel Raver looks back:
Small-world phenomenon
The six degrees of separation concept was examined in Milgram's 1967 "small-world experiment", which tracked chains of acquaintances in the United States. In the experiment, Milgram sent several packages to 160 random people living in Omaha, Nebraska, asking them to forward the package to a friend or acquaintance who they thought would bring the package closer to a set final individual, a stockbroker from Boston, Massachusetts. Each "starter" received instructions to mail a folder via the U.S. Post Office to a recipient, but with some rules. Starters could only mail the folder to someone they actually knew personally on a first-name basis. When doing so, each starter instructed their recipient to mail the folder ahead to one of the latter's first-name acquaintances with the same instructions, with the hope that their acquaintance might by some chance know the target recipient.
Given that starters knew only the target recipient's name and address, they had a seemingly impossible task. Milgram monitored the progress of each chain via returned "tracer" postcards, which allowed him to track the progression of each letter. Surprisingly, he found that the very first folder reached the target in just four days and took only two intermediate acquaintances. Overall, Milgram reported that chains varied in length from two to ten intermediate acquaintances, with a median of five intermediate acquaintances (i.e. six degrees of separation) between the original sender and the destination recipient.
Milgram's "six degrees" theory has been severely criticized. He did not follow up on many of the sent packages, and as a result, scientists are unconvinced that there are merely "six degrees" of separation. Elizabeth DeVita–Raebu has discussed potential problems with Milgram's experiment.
In 2008, a study by Microsoft showed that the average chain of contacts between users of its '.NET Messenger Service' (later called Microsoft Messenger service) was 6.6 people.
Lost letter experiment Milgram developed a technique, called the "lost letter" experiment, for measuring how helpful people are to strangers who are not present, and their attitudes toward various groups. Several sealed and stamped letters were planted in public places, addressed to various entities, such as individuals, favorable organizations like medical research institutes, and stigmatized organizations such as "Friends of the Nazi Party". Milgram found most of the letters addressed to individuals and favorable organizations were mailed, while most of those addressed to stigmatized organizations were not. A meta-analysis of 78 lost-letter experiments across 18 countries found an average return rate of 50%. Return rates are lower for political issues or deviant ('stigmatized') addressees and higher in wealthier socioeconomic environments.
Anti-social behavior experiment In 1970–71, Milgram conducted experiments which attempted to find a correlation between media consumption (in this case, watching television) and anti-social behavior. The experiment presented the opportunity to steal money, donate to charity, or neither, and tested whether the rate of each choice was influenced by watching similar actions in the ending of a specially crafted episode of the series Medical Center. No correlation between media and anti-social behavior was identified. In homage to Cyrano, he referred to the hybrid agent formed by combining the words of one individual with the body of another as a "cyranoid". In his studies, interactants repeatedly failed to detect that their interlocutors were merely speech shadowing for third parties, implicitly and explicitly attributing to them communicative autonomy. Milgram referred to this phenomenon as the "cyranic illusion". This illusion held even in circumstances involving high disparity between shadower and source, such as when he sourced for child shadowers while being interviewed by panels of teachers (naïve to the deception) tasked with assessing each child's intellectual abilities.
Milgram hoped that the cyranoid method could evolve into a useful means of interactively exploring phenomena related to social behavior and self-perception (e.g., racial, gender, and age-based stereotyping and behavioral confirmation). Though he continued to develop the methodology through 1984 (the year of his death), he never prepared a formal publication detailing his cyranoid experiments.
In 2014, social psychologists at the London School of Economics published the first replications of Milgram's original pilots. Robb Mitchell has explored cyranoids as an experiential learning tool within the classroom (having children shadow for teachers during teaching exercises). Cyranoids have also been used in installation art to explore social experiences whereby people encounter those familiar to them through the bodies of strangers.
References in media
Dannie Abse wrote a play, The Dogs of Pavlov. (1973), produced at The Questors Theatre, inspired by and criticising Milgram's authority experiments. There are discussion of both men's views in the play and in Milgram's book.
In 1975, CBS presented a made-for-television movie about obedience experiments, The Tenth Level, with William Shatner as Stephen Hunter, a Milgram-like scientist. Milgram was a consultant for the film, though the accuracy of the film has been contested by Milgram himself.
In 1980, musician Peter Gabriel wrote a song called "We Do What We're Told (Milgram's 37)", referring to the number of subjects who administered the maximum shock in another one of the experiments - 37 out of 40. While it was played live on his 1980 tour, Gabriel did not release a studio version of the song until 1986, on his 5th album So.
Milgram 18 was reproduced to test the participants in a 2008 television special The Heist. Created by Derren Brown and Andy Nyman for British station Channel 4, the Milgram experiment helped determine which would be given the opportunity to rob a (fake) armoured bank van.
Milgram is a character in Chip Kidd's novel The Learners (2008), overseeing his experiments at Yale.
In March 2010, French television channel France 2 broadcast Jusqu'où va la télé, describing the results of a fake game show that they had run 80 times (each time independently, and with a new contestant and audience). The contestants received instructions to administer what they thought would be near fatal electric shocks to another "contestant" (really an actor) when they erred on memorized word-associations. The vast majority followed instructions even as the "victim" screamed.
On May 4, 2010, the TV show Law and Order: Criminal Intent broadcast an episode “Abel & Willing” (Season 9, Episode 6) about a murderous scientist who conducts experiments, modeled after Milgram’s, forcing couples to decide which one of them will die.
In 2015, an experimental biopic about Milgram called Experimenter was released, directed by Michael Almereyda. Peter Sarsgaard stars as Stanley Milgram.
In 2020, an online project known as the MILGRAM project portrays how a human would act if faced with the decision of being a prison guard to 10 different murderers. The project is still ongoing and has yet to be confirmed on its roots.
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Frequently asked questions
Who was Stanley Milgram?
American social psychologist (1933–1984)
When was Stanley Milgram born?
Stanley Milgram was born on 15 August 1933 in The Bronx.
When did Stanley Milgram die?
Stanley Milgram died on 20 December 1984 in Manhattan.
What was Stanley Milgram's occupation?
Stanley Milgram was a social psychologist, university teacher, sociologist, psychologist and ordinary professor.
What was Stanley Milgram known for?
Stanley Milgram was known for Familiar stranger, Milgram experiment and Small-world experiment.
What nationality was Stanley Milgram?
Stanley Milgram was American.
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