Aimee Kotek Wilson

Aimee Kotek Wilson (née Wilson) is an American social worker who has served as first lady of Oregon since 2023 as the wife of Governor Tina Kotek.

Early life and education Kotek Wilson was raised in a family involved in public service. Her father served in the military, later entered business, and held elected office.

She has participated in initiatives related to mental health, public engagement, and literacy, including a statewide early childhood literacy event in May 2025. In September 2025, she accompanied Governor Kotek on an official trade mission to Japan and South Korea.

Advocacy In April 2025, Kotek Wilson testified before the Oregon House Judiciary Committee in support of House Bill 2467, legislation that would make it easier for officials to civilly commit individuals experiencing mental health crises who pose a danger to themselves or others. Before her testimony, she registered as a lobbyist for the governor's office in relation to the bill. This followed the departure of several senior staff members and public concerns about her influence in the office.

In response to these concerns, Governor Kotek announced she would not create a formal "Office of the First Spouse" following internal and public criticism regarding Kotek Wilson's role. She apologized for how she had approached expanding her wife's responsibilities. She stated that while Kotek Wilson would continue to accompany her and attend ceremonial events, no staff would report to her. Kotek also confirmed that Kotek Wilson would retain access to an office in the governor's suite but reiterated that there would be no formal office for the first spouse during her tenure.

In September 2024, the governor's office released a "First Partner Handbook" outlining the role and ethics guidance for the position. The handbook noted that each first spouse may determine their level of involvement, but did not provide detailed procedures for structuring the role or handling workplace concerns.