Laura, Lady Troubridge

Laura Troubridge, Lady Troubridge (née Gurney; 1867 8 July 1946) was a British novelist and etiquette writer. She wrote almost 60 novels and many short stories.

Life Lady Troubridge (née Gurney) was born in 1867 in London, England. She was the daughter of Charles Henry Gurney and Alice Marie Prinsep and granddaughter of Henry Thoby Prinsep and the salon organiser Sara Monckton (nee Pattle).

Her father died when she was 11 years old, and her sister, Rachel, was 10. In 1897 her mother married a second time, to Colonel John Bourchier Stracey-Clitherow who in 1900 took up residence at Hotham Hall in East Riding, and later, after the death of his father in 1912, Boston Manor House. The Washington Post in 1907 states Troubridge "is the only sister of young Lady Sybil Dudley who as an orphan was adopted by the Duke of Bedford". But in the same article also states Troubridge was "orphaned at a tender age" which seems in conflict with other sources showing her mother died in 1919 when Troubridge was 52 years old. Adding to confusion about Troubridge's early life, Baroness Franzisca von Hedeman states: "Rachel Gurney ... was brought up by the Marchioness of Tavistock, now Adeline, Duchess of Bedford ... Her sister, Laura Gurney, now Lady Trowbridge, who is much admired for her literary taste, was brought up by her Aunt, Lady Henry Somerset, well known in America." Whatever the exact circumstances of her childhood, Troubridge spent much of her youth in Somerset's house where the refined library atmosphere influenced her future as a writer.

She married her cousin Sir Thomas Herbert Cochrane Troubridge, 4th Baronet, on 13 July 1893. In 1930 their home, Ole Ways in Beaulieu, was completely destroyed by fire: "Lady Troubridge who is a well-known authoress, lost hundreds of sheets of typescript. She was at her desk when the outbreak occurred, but managed to save the manuscripts on which she was engaged."

She died on 8 July 1946

Career She wrote under her title, Lady Troubridge, and authored almost three dozen novels, numerous short stories and, newspaper serial stories and articles.

Her first novel, Paul’s Stepmother, and One Other Story, was published in 1896. After a lapse of some years she wrote her first essay, Thou Woman Thou Gavest, in 1906. It was a brilliant success

Troubridge published The Millionaire in 1907 and it caused a sensation. The Washington Post wrote: "Lady Troubridge, the facile romancist, whose latest novel, 'The Millionaire', created a sensation in England" and continues, she "depicts in classic style the trials of a young girl who leaves a dingy home in the suburbs of London to take her place in cosmopolitan society. Throughout the story the secret sins of the upper classes are laid bare ... and the innocent who are grabbed by the tentacles of the social octopus find it a herculean task to rescue themselves from its clutches."

She wrote The Book of Etiquette which was first published in 1926. Over the following six decades, until 1987, a further 29 editions were published. In 1939 My Home published excerpts from it as a booklet titled Etiquette and Entertaining. The Book of Etiquette, unlike its predecessors, was focused on a British audience. It was a thorough guide to English social etiquette in upper class society. It intended to help readers steer their way through "unwritten laws" of social behaviour and between old-fashion courtesy and the new spirit of informality. Troubridge became well respected for her views on etiquette even before The Book of Etiquette. The Sheboygan Press, for example, quoted her as the authority on "When to Propose Marriage" in 1911. Her reputation on all things etiquette extended beyond her life. For the film Gosford Park released in 2002, The Book of Etiquette was given to cast members to use for researching etiquette during the 1930s.

She wrote seven society novels for Mills & Boon between 1909 and 1912: The Woman who Forgot; The First Law; The Cheat; Body and Soul; Stormlight; The Girl with the Blue Eyes; and The Creature of Circumstance.

Her short stories were published in magazines such as Britannia and Eve, Cassell's Magazine of Fiction, Marks & Spencer’s Grand Annual, Miss Modern, Nash’s Magazine, The Grand Magazine, The Lady’s Realm, The London Magazine, The Novel Magazine, The Pall Mall Magazine, The Red Magazine, The Sovereign Magazine, The Story-teller and The Yellow Magazine. Troubridge also wrote serial stories for newspapers, The True Heart in 1915 for the Staffordshire Sentinel, is an example of such a story. Her opinions, stories and letters appeared in newspapers far as Australia such as the Sydney Morning Herald and the Daily News (Perth).