Lakshmi Iyer

Lakshmi Iyer is an Indian-American writer, essayist, and children's book author. Her debut children's book, Why Is My Hair Curly?, addresses themes of adoption, identity, and belonging through the perspective of a young protagonist. Iyer is a central subject of the documentary film Love Chaos Kin (2025), directed by Chithra Jeyaram, which premiered at CAAMFest in May 2025.

Early life and education

Iyer was born in Tamil Nadu, India, and grew up in Coimbatore and Madras (now Chennai). She holds a bachelor's degree in applied sciences with majors in mathematics, physics, and chemistry, and an MBA from the LeBow College of Business at Drexel University. She is an alumna of the Yale Writers' Workshop (2018) and holds a certificate in creative writing from Simon Fraser University.

Career

Iyer began her professional career in India as a printed circuit board designer, later joining Wipro in Bangalore as a software engineer.

Her writing career began with personal blogs and developed into a body of essays and fiction. She is the author of the newsletter Belonging, Mostly on Substack, which addresses adoption, Tamil-American identity, and family. and Brown Girl Magazine. The book was included in the 2025 Week feature on Indian writers exploring bold themes for young readers. The Indian Express, Financial Express, India Abroad, Adoptive Families, Motherwell Magazine, and Mutha Magazine. She has been featured on NPR's The Takeaway and on the BBC Asian Network's Big Debate programme.

Documentary subject

Iyer and her family are the subjects of Love Chaos Kin (2025), a feature documentary directed by Chithra Jeyaram of Realtalkies, CAAM-funded, that follows the family's experience of transracial adoption over more than a decade.

The film has played at numerous festivals, including the Asian American International Film Festival, the Maryland Film Festival, the Beloit International Film Festival, the Cucalorus Film Festival, the Centre Film Festival, and the Bare Bones International Independent Film & Music Festival. Upcoming festivals confirmed by the production include the Seattle International Film Festival (Washington premiere, 2026), the South Asian Film Festival of Montreal (Canadian premiere, 2026), and the Houston Asian American Pacific Islander Film Festival (Texas premiere, 2026).

Love Chaos Kin has received the AICEF Prize for Cross-Cultural Filmmaking at the Middlebury New Filmmakers Festival, the Audience Award for Best Feature Documentary at the Chicago South Asian Film Festival, and the Made in PA Audience Award at the Centre Film Festival, among other honors.

A review of the documentary in Mediaversity Reviews described Iyer as "a wonderful guide who lets viewers in on her thought process of raising multicultural girls."

Personal life

Iyer lives in Pennsylvania with her husband and three children.