Lady Beatrice Butler

Lady Beatrice Frances Elizabeth Pole-Carew (née Butler) was a British aristocrat. She was a daughter of James Butler, 3rd Marquess of Ormonde and Elizabeth Butler, Marchioness of Ormonde, and the wife of Lieutenant-General Sir Reginald Pole-Carew. She is recorded as a sitter in several national portrait and heritage collections.

Early life and family Lady Beatrice Frances Elizabeth Butler was born on 28 December 1876. She was the eldest daughter of James Butler, 3rd Marquess of Ormonde and Elizabeth Butler, Marchioness of Ormonde, daughter of Hugh Grosvenor, 1st Duke of Westminster.

Through her parents, she was connected to the Butler dynasty, a historic Anglo-Norman noble house long prominent in Ireland, and the Grosvenor family, which accumulated extensive land and property holdings in Britain, particularly in London's Mayfair and Belgravia districts.

Marriage and family On 19 February 1901, Lady Beatrice married Sir Reginald Pole-Carew, a British Army officer who later attained the rank of lieutenant-general, in the Guards Chapel, Knightsbridge. The wedding reception was held at Stafford House.

Sir Reginald and Lady Beatrice had four children:

Sir John Carew Pole, 12th Baronet (1902 - 1993) married Cynthia Burns, great-niece of J. P. Morgan in 1928 Elizabeth Mary Carew Pole (1929 - 2021) married David Quilter, grandson of Sir Cuthbert Quilter, 1st Baronet Caroline Anne Carew Pole (1933 - 2018) married The Hon. Paul Asquith, son of Cyril Asquith, Baron Asquith of Bishopstone Sir Richard Carew Pole, 13th Baronet (1938 - 2024) married Mary Dawnay (later Dame Mary Carew Pole) Marye Frances Pole-Carew (1903 - 1987) Victoria Geraldine Pole-Carew (1904 - 1987) married Peter Du Cane in 1929. Diana Edith Du Cane (1929 - 2021) married The Hon. Jeremy Cubitt, son of Roland Cubitt, 3rd Baron Ashcombe and uncle of Queen Camilla (who was a bridesmaid at their wedding) in 1952, divorced 1957. Margaret Anne Du Cane (1932 - 2023) married David Stuart, 2nd Viscount Stuart of Findhorn in 1979. Charles Antony Du Cane (b. 1940) Patrick William Butler Pole-Carew (1913 - 1971) Following the death of the Dowager Lady Lismore in 1900, Lady Beatrice and Lady Constance inherited an estate worth an estimated £25,000 annually, as well as Shanbally Castle in County Tipperary, Ireland, which contemporary news reports suggested was worth £25,000 annually.

During the early 20th century much of the landed estates which Lady Beatrice and her sister had inherited from Lord Lismore were sold via the Irish Land Commission:

In 1907 they were paid an advance of £15,200 for the sale of 1,104 acres in Tippery and 22 acres in Derry. In March 1910 a further £38,814 was paid as an advance to the sisters from the Land Commission for the sale of 2,587 acres in Tipperary, and £1,922 for 175 acres in King's County On 1 January 1912 a further 5,361 acres in Tipperary were sold for £13,129.

Lady Beatrice died on 29 February 1952 at the age of 75.