Joan Darrah

Joan Darrah is an activist for LGBTQ rights, specifically the end of the "don't ask don't tell" (DADT) policy, which prohibited gay, lesbian, and bisexual service members from being open about their sexual orientation.

Darrah joined the Navy in 1972, unaware that she was a lesbian, and retired in June 2002 as a captain. At one point in her career, she supervised 1500 people at Naval Intelligence Command, including openly gay civilians. Darrah was a Navy officer who narrowly escaped being killed in the September 11 attacks on the Pentagon, which caused her to reevaluate the harm the policy was causing to her life. Due to this, she retired in 2002 after serving for thirty years. She wrote an open letter to the President advocating for the repeal of DADT, which was published on the Service Members Legal Defense Network website. She also wrote an opinion piece for CNN in 2010 titled "My secret life under 'don't ask, don't tell'" in which she detailed the hardships the policy had caused her as a gay woman.

Darrah is the partner of Lynne Kennedy, an openly gay reference librarian at the Library of Congress. They married on December 17, 2010, after twenty years together, one day before the Senate voted to repeal DADT. At the invitation of the White House, she attended the ceremony at which President Obama signed the Don't Ask, Don't Tell Repeal Act of 2010. In 2012, Darrah wrote an opinion article for CNN titled "Respect Sally Ride's decision not to come out."