About Hilary Lapsley
Born 1949. Hilary Lapsley is a New Zealand researcher, writer and author.
Hilary Mary Lapsley (also Hilary Mary Haines; born 1949) is a New Zealand author, psychologist, and social studies academic specialising in gender studies. She was awarded a New Zealand Suffrage Centennial Medal in 1993, and the Judy Grahn Award for lesbian non-fiction in 2000.
Early life and education
Lapsley was born in Auckland in 1949 to Robin and Sylvia Lapsley, a minister and a teacher respectively.
Career Lapsley worked as a research officer for the Mental Health Foundation of New Zealand, rising to deputy director, and then in 1988 was appointed as a lecturer in psychology at the University of Waikato. Lapsley was a National Convenor of the Women's Studies Association, and serves on the committee. Lapsley wrote a book on the professional and personal relationship between anthropologists Margaret Mead and Ruth Benedict, which was published by the University of Massachusetts Press in 2001.
Personal life Lapsley used to live on Waiheke Island, but bought into the Cohaus co-housing development in Grey Lynn with her partner Lois Cox. They divide their time between Auckland and Cox's home in Wellington. Lapsley and Cox have written three lesbian mystery novels together, under the pen name Jennifer Palgrave.
Honours and awards In 1992 Lapsley was awarded a Fulbright Scholarship, and in 1993 she was awarded a New Zealand Suffrage Centennial Medal. The medal was given to recognize those people who had made a significant contribution to women's rights or women's issues in New Zealand. She was awarded the Publishing Triangle Judy Grahn Award for lesbian non-fiction in 2000 for her book on Margaret Mead and Ruth Benedict.
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Who is Hilary Lapsley?
New Zealand researcher in gender and ethnicity
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Hilary Lapsley was born in 1949 in Auckland.
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