Helga Aradóttir

Helga Aradóttir (c. 1538–1614) was an Icelandic noblewoman in the 16th century and housewife in in and Reykhólar. She was married to (Páll Jónsson of ), and she is mostly remembered for their tempestuous relationship. Helga was the daughter of lawyer Ari Jónsson (Bishop Jón Arason's son) and his wife Halldóra Þorleifsdóttir (daughter of , the sýslumaður of in Eyjafjörður).

Family After Helga's father was executed in 1550, she was raised by her aunt, Þórunn Jónsdóttir of Grund. Helga was said to be domineering, unruly, and temperamental,

Páll Jónsson from in was just a few years old than Helga and they became infatuated with each other as teenagers. Páll proposed to her, but her grandfather vetoed it. However, Páll was set on marrying Helga and wrote passionate love poems to her. One of them begins with the couplet "I saw in a certain garden/an exceedingly enchanting flower".

Relationship with Páll In their first few together, the young couple lived in the farm in Eyrarland in and in Reykjadalur valley. They then moved west to around 1562. They lived there until 1570 before moving to Reykjólar, which Páll also owned. By this time, their relationship had started to grow difficult, as they were both very strong-willed, arrogant, and domineering. Helga wanted to be in charge of the assets that she brought to the marriage, however Páll, did not agree. He was also fond of drink, verbally abusive, and foul-mouthed and spoke harshly when they had disagreements.

In 1578, they separated, which very uncommon at the time, though Helga was still sometimes with Páll. In 1590, she went to stay with their daughter Elín and likely stayed there from then on. The next year, Páll summoned her to court, levying various accusations against her including no longer cohabitatating with him, desertion of the home, and financial expenditures: "she has been headstrong, competitive, and disobedient, and she has brought these outrageous accusations upon herself". The issue was referred to the Alþingi, but they did not take it up until 1594. The legislature did not consider the case to be legally ready since Helga was not summoned, nor was any representative called for her. Bishop Oddur Einarsson stood against Páll and he said that Páll was involved in this complaint in contravention of his relatives' will, which shocked everyone. Páll then wrote the bishop a letter, protesting this and saying it was not right that his children and elders, like Reverend of and of Grund, were considered wiser than he was and he would not be seeking further counsel from them.

Páll wanted to divorce Helga because he had fallen in love with , whose father was Bishop Guðbrandur Þorláksson of Hólar, and intended to marry her. However, Halldóra was around 40 years younger than he was, and she had no interest in the match.

Helga and Páll's children were: , who initially married the of Núpur and later married the priest Sveinn Símonarson of Holt in Önundarfjörður. was also the mother of Bishop Brynjólfur Sveinsson. Péter, of Elín, wife of Björn Benediktsson, of Munkaþverá